Bear with me here for a little bit, because I’m going to paint in BROAD strokes.
I believe that one of the greatest social and cultural failures of the United States is that, in a country with so much freedom and opportunity, so many people choose not to do what they want; rather, they choose to do what they feel they must to achieve career and financial success.
Chew on it for a bit, and read it a few times. Please.
Here we are in a nation with freedom to believe, say, and do nearly anything that doesn’t harm other people (compared to most other nations). If you want to, you can paint. You can cook. You can teach. You can be a professional student. You can be an engineer. Whatever.
What I see so many people doing instead is what they think they should want. We have folks who go for degrees/jobs/vocations because “that’s the future” or “that’s where the jobs are.” Oh yeah, and “that’s where the money is.” Build that college resume. Build that work resume. Climb that corporate ladder. Learn to play golf because, you know, so much business is conducted on the fairway. Make enough money to get that house in the neighborhood where the good schools are. Then raise your kids to do the same thing. Go ahead, take piano lessons, but maybe that’s just a great hobby, and something you can do for fun while you study finance.
Bollocks.
Now don’t get me wrong - some people really enjoy finance, and IT, and securities trading, and golf - and those people usually excel at their jobs, and I think they should. But how awful is it that our culture, in a society where we have so many options, encourages the path of least excitement? How awful is it that our culture, in a society that has produced startling works of art and ingenuity, children are prodded into more “practical” pursuits like business and science, while creativity falls by the wayside?
Sure there are people thrust into situations beyond their individual control. Sure, there are people who make mistakes or misunderstand and get caught in a direction they struggle to change, but such are not the people of whom I speak (though I hope that would be obvious at this point). I’m talking about the people who go to business school just to get ahead in their careers - not because they enjoy it or want to learn more. I’m taking about the people who participate in Model UN instead of the photography club because it will help them get into a better academic program. And I’m especially talking about the parents, colleagues, spouses, and friends who put pressure on each other and loved ones to participate in this defunct way of thinking.
If you like what you do, that’s awesome, and I understand that even if you don’t, you may not be in a position to change that. But if you can, don’t pursue advancement in a career because of the financial security and neighborhood status at the end of the tunnel. Do what you want.